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Q: i don't know how it happens, but every time i'm close friends with guys, they get a crush on me. does this always happen to everybody or am i just doing somthing wrong? how am i supposed to act in order to eliminate this possibility?
Stop being so adorable! ok. I'm kidding. I had this problem to in college. I was always best buddies with guys in high school, then all of a sudden, in college guys seemed to be different. It kind of bummed me out at first until someone told me that most girls would kill this kind of problem. It could just be you and how you act and if you are attractive or not. It could be the guys who become friends with you for alterior motives. Each situation is different. I wouldn't say change who you are, just maybe change how you treat guys. Maybe tell your deepest secrets to your girl friends only and stay more casual with guys.
Good luck and keep me posted.

hey thanx, you're right, i tell them too many of my secrets, maybe i should keep the conversations more casual.

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