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hey people, i'm rachel, and i'm 18 years old and i'm from IL. i love giving advice to other people! my friends say i give really good advice, and i've hooked them up with all of their boyfriends who they have had for at least a year and a half already! i do especially good with "boy" questions. lol! but i am totally open to all sorts of advice! ask me anything! dont be afraid to tell me something, or ask me a question, and dont hesitate! i hope i give u great advice, and if U have any advice for me about my page or something, feel free to ask!

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Okay, so I've been talking to this guy for awhile. Lemme point out the majority of my friends are guys. I just like them better - they're easier to get along with.
So this guy is kind of a jerk, but he's not really mean. He just like, teases and makes fun of me a lot. I was talking to him the other night, and I said something about talking to much and joked about him "probably want[ing] to duct tape my mouth and hands" (we were talking on line) and he said "you know, I might just have to take you up on that," and we went into a whole conversation about like, tying me up and he made it like, really sexual.
Then last night I was talking to him and I asked him what he wanted (I meant out of life) but he turned it into a discussion about what we wanted in relationships, and then he asked why I was so curious/interested, and I answered honestly first, saying it was "just something to talk about, and gets me into your head a little." and then said (obviously sarcastic) no, it's because I want you. And he thinks I seriously like him! I can't convince him otherwise, and I totally don't. I mean, I like him as a friend, but that's honestly it.
I don't want him to go around thinking I like him when I don't. So how do I fix this situation? I've tried talking to him about it and calmly explaining that I really, honestly don't like him like that and that I was totally kidding, and he said something like "You can lie to me but you can't lie to yourself."
Yeah, he's kinda arrogant. But like...what would you do?
It almost sounds to me like he likes me, but he specifically said he didn't.
So I ask you, what the heck?

omg, he obviously likes you! if he didnt, he would just drop it, guys are like that. but maybe you have the tiniest feelings for him.... to show him that you do not like him in that way, the next time he says, oh i know you like me or w/e, just say, yeah, i like u, u got me. (say it a LITTLE sarcastically, but not alot) and then jsut walk away rolling your eyes. he will think that you are serious, and kind of lay off a bit.

i hope my advice helps, and i hope it works!
~rachel

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(Rating: 5) But he said he didn't! Rawr...you're probably right, lol. Sarcasm won't work on him, he'll think I'm "covering it up" or something.
Thanks, though.
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