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I'm 25 shes 19, known each other for 3yrs. Get on really well always laughing and flifting etc, lately shes split with her ex. We've done stuff before but no sex which is fine thats not the initial aim here, spent fair bit of time together recently, few kisses etc but then thats it. I'm sure she knows I really like her and she must like me too, but I fear if I lay it on the line with her she may clam up but if not then she'l certainly find someone eles soon, annoying thing is I'm a great guy and definately have qualities her ex's didn't she knows that too. (not meant to sound big headed). Which way should I go? We also work together so I always know when she's seeing someone and I think thats gonna start to do my head in, and if she isn't interested why is she leading me on!? Help please!
First of all, you really do need to slow down because I think right now that you're just going a bit too fast. And when you go so fast, you become overwhelmed and insecure and doubtful. I want you to feel and think positive, but I want you to be prepared for the possibility that she may not want to go out with you. Always prepare yourself for it and I mean really prepare yourself for it. First, approach her. Ask her in a calm, steady, and slow voice. Ask her and tell her what you feel. And look her in the eye and tell her how you've been feeling for the past three years that you've known her. And if you can mention it in some sort of way, say that you'll treat her right. Oh and tell her that you'll understand that if she doesn't want to go out with you; even if you don't understand it because it's a good thing to assure her. But you know, I think you have a good chance and I think you should go for it. And IF she does reject you, then that's her loss not yours. She'll get over it and with time, you'll get over it. Don't let fear stop you, this is an amazing opportunity. Don't miss out on it.
(Rating: 4) GREAT ADVICE BUT I STILL HAVENT MADE A MOVE, THINK I'VE MADE A MESS OF THIS ONE!