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My name is Kim, i am 15 years old, i have two cats, 2 brothers, and live with my parents. I have long, straight brown hair and ocean blue eyes. Im about 5'7 and i am adverage size.

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im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had.

wow, if i were in your position i would just give it a few days and see if he calls you, he might just be scared to call you. If you didnt say anything bad about him to anyone then that means you could tell him to ask anyone of the people he hangs out with if you ever said anything bad. The next time you see him just look at him, see what his expression is. I would just tell you to forget him but you are head over heels and losing your virginity to someone means alot so forgetting him isnt the answer here. I dont know how much this answer will help you but i am trying my best, i hope things work out for you

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