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ok i always feel like i'm comparing myself to this girl at my school, shes soo pretty and she has an amazing bf. She has the cutest clothes and she is just really really pretty and i always try to be as skinny as her or as athletic and i always compare myself to her and i don't know what to do to stop myself b/c this is not me at all and i need helpp quick i'll rate 5s for any thoughts!

I used to have the same problem. I would compare myself to the hottest or most popular girl in the school who had the hottest boyfriends or whatever. But after a while, I started telling myself, "You know what, she may be hot or whatever everone else thinks about her, but I bet she has a sucky life on the inside. She has to keep up that appearance, and the way she acts or no one will like her at all." Here's something that I do as well, I take a sheet of paper or just make a list in my mind and write/think of all things that make me look hot, things about my personality that make me cool. Stop trying to compare yourself to her because in your eyes, you'll always seem lesser to her because it's what your mind makes you think. Start wearing a new style of clothes that shows off your figure, change your hairstyle, wear a new ype of lip gloss. You'll start to feel more confidence in yourself and guys seem to like that. I hope my advice helped you. If you have any other quiestions just email me at pinkbunny_112@yahoo.com

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