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before this all happened my friend was going out with this girl but after a few days they broke up (i think, my friend might be confused). So then i went out with her(the girl) and we've been together ever since but my friend is still like hanging out with the girl (my gf), like me and my gf are walking to a class we have together and my friend just like comes in and talks to us.When i'm not there he talks and flirts with her BUT when i asked my gf if she was hiding anything she said no,she wasn't. I don't know what to do about it? what can i do about it? (link)
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There are many possibilities here. Your friend and your g/f may have maintained a friendship which is what girls want after they break up and they still may be close, only she's w/ you so they are nothing more. It's good that your friend feels comfortable talking to y'all together, even though it may be awkward b/c your his friend. Talk to him about the flirting thing. Say something like "You're my friend, and I'm glad you still have a friendship w/ my g/f, but she's my girlfriend, and you may not mean to but it's coming off as flirting when I'm not around." See what he says about it, if there is something more between them or if it's just how he is...look to see if your girlfriend is flirting back, or if she's just friendly, or not taking the hint. I dunno...good luck w/ this one and I hope everything turns out well for the 3 of you.
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