Oh wow.

major drama.

I can say I've definately been there.

You need to try to be true to your heart, but try not to break this "idiot" 's heart.

It would probably be best if you wrote the "idiot" a note to explain what's going on. It'll hurt him no matter what, but try to do it gently.

Example of a Note:

Dear "idiot", I just thought i needed to let you know an update on what's been going on with me. You see, I'm just not very into you and I think it's best if we didn't go winter formal together. I just need to stay true to my feelings. I'm sorry.

or something like that. make it short, sweet, and to the point. also, do it as soon as possible so the guy doesn't have lots more time to get excited about going with you.

and about the other guy that you like: honestly, there is really no way you can stop the "idiot" from talking to him. Freedom of speech. but just try to causually let this guy know that you're single. if you see the "idiot" talking to him you could go over after the 'idiot' leaves and bring him up. "yeah, for some reason i agreed to go to winter formal with him, but i realized there was someone else i really liked who i wanted to ask me" if he asks who just say "oh well i can't tell, he hasnt asked me yet" or something clever like that. but be catious. this guy might like the "idiot." also, be careful about direct hinting that you like him, he might not get it, and think you're intrested in someone else!!

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thanks!

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