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My name is Kim, i am 15 years old, i have two cats, 2 brothers, and live with my parents. I have long, straight brown hair and ocean blue eyes. Im about 5'7 and i am adverage size.

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Hey everyone im new to this but you*ll find i need alotta help.lol this ones kinda long...

So One problem that im having is that im caught up on this kid, who likes me back, but is older. As in im 14 and hes almost 19... yea i know what a drag... And he keeps talking about how he hates the fact that we only get to see each other once or twice every other week. And i keep telling him it's only because we just started hangin out more and the holidays are coming buthe keeps saying that he cares about me but hes not sure if he can handle it...

Well The other day his friend andy was on his s/n acting as if he was ben.. he was saying all these things like that he wanted to have sex with me and he wanted to be my first time and trying to pressure me into doing it w/ him. Meanwhile deep down in my heart i knew it cant be ben but in the back of my mind im doubting myself... as usual...

After i practically had an axiety attack he told me it was him, andy, and not ben.

Well i think he played another one of these (not so funny) "jokes" on me again today 11*23*05 saying that him and ben were up in waverly staying with his friend jackie, which i didnt mind i understand he has friends, but then andy was saying that ben was gunna go out w/ jackie andall this n i didnt believe him n he goes your too young just deal w/ it. and then when i was talking to ben later he said it wasnt true... but then after we talked about it more he started gettin hostile with me and toldme to fuck off... at that point i wasnt sure if it was ben or andy.. then he justsigned off on me, whoever it was.
Now im so confused as to what i should do and how i should handle it... i care about ben so much, i may even love him but i just dont know.

hes never pulled ne thing like this before and he always talks about how much he cares about me and wants to see me all the time.. maybe he got tired of not being able to see me whenever he wanted to.. but im not sure... please help me ... im a 14/F bens 18/M

I can see that you love Ben. I have a 14 year old friend who is dating an 18 year old so i can see where you are coming from. In my opinion it is a very big age difference but if you love him you should just remember that it may not have been him who said all this to you. Dont jump to conclusions yet. Call him and ask him about it. If you found out it was him then maybe you should consider ditching him cuz he hurt you, if it wasnt him then just remember that in a few years you can see each other all the time. If you wait it will all pay off. Good Luck!!!

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