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my bf, his friend jason, my friend and her bf and some other ppl all went to the movies. my bf sat in between me and jason, and most of the movie he seemed more interested in talking to him! meanwhile my friend and her bf were making out like right next to us. and they've been going out less than a month! when jason told him (my bf) to kiss me he said "i dont want to kiss her now. i will soon" (we havnt kissed yet) the problem is tho that that was the same thing he said to his other friend when he told him to ask me out, and it took him like a year to ask me, and even then i had to bring up the subject and stuff. i dont want to wait forever just for him to make a move. like i said, its been 3 months already. i definately dont want to kiss him first tho. what should i do?
he is obviously prude, scared, and a weaklink, when this stuff happens to me all i think about is "i got to take charge" so what i do is grab him, look him in the eye, pull on a sexy look, nd say are you going to kiss me?. it sounds hard but it's easy, either that or you could make the first move but you said you didn't want to. start looking really sexy and keep asking him to make out with you, it works with me all the time because i'm always in the same position. if you don't want to do this this might help. close your eyes and say to yourself "I am taking charge of my man!" wrks like a charm. hope i helped
(Rating: 4) thats not really my kinda thing, im pretty shy too. but ill try to work on it. thanks!