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Okay...I've realized a couple days ago that I really, really like this boy I know (I'll call him Bill)...and the same day I came to that conclusion, I was told by a very good friend of mine that Bill has something for her...and that she likes Bill too. (She didn't know that I liked him, of course)...Today, I found that they have officially paired up...and I didn't really do a good job of hiding my disapointment, because "Bill" asked me if somebody made me upset...I said "Not intentionally"...he then asked if it was him that had done anything to make me upset...(Did he suspect or know that I like him??)...Now, I'm not sure if I should tell him that I really like him or not, because I do NOT want to cause any discomfort between me and the two of them, because I care deeply for both of them...but I don't want him to feel like he's doing anything wrong, either. I think if I told them (Or just him) "Hey, I'm disapointed, but I still support you guys", that it would (maybe) make things better...

I really need answers fast on this one, guys...

S. (link)
I do not think that you should tell "Bill" how you feel about him. It will only make things a little awkward since he has a girlfriend. Also, his girlfriend (who happens to be your friend) might be a little bit mad. Just tell Bill that it wasnt him... for now. If the two of them break up and you decide to go for it, go right ahead. Nothing will be in the way then and if he then asks you again if it was him you could probably tell him that yes, it was but you only lied so that your friend would not be upset and things between you and Bill would not be awkward. That way he wont think that you are a frequent liar and that he cannot trust you. Hope I helped. ;)


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yeah...I think I understand what you're saying. I appreciate it. Thank you! ^_^

S




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