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i'm a guy and was wondering something. as the question implys, i would like to know whether most people put feelings or morality first, and why. my example is pre-marital sex. there must be at least 20 questions on that topic before this one...some say 'do it if you feel ready' while others say 'no because you'll regret it and it's not meant to be that way'. both seem good reasons for or against it. is it both? should you really put your feelings and that of another first, or should you stick to your moral values, reguardless of what others or society has to say about pre-marital sex. thanks, will rate. (link)
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I think feelings and morality connect in a way. Everybody has to decide what they think is MORAL. I don't think pre-marital sex is immoral. Why? It is sex. If you believe there is nothing more to it then a dick and a pussy, why would it be immoral? If you believe that religion ties into it and peoples feelings, then some would believe it IS immoral. A person who is strongly aginst this wouldn't put their feelings first, they would do what they believe is moral. A person who doesn't believe that strongly that " pre-marital sex is wrong" would for sure put their feelings first because they don't believe it is wrong in anyway. So pretty much what I'm saying is that it completely depends on what the persons belief of moral is. :o) good question!
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