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I'm Kida.. Just want to help someone out in anyway i can.. so if you want some advice..i'm one click away
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Kida
Member Since: November 7, 2005
Answers: 15
Last Update: November 11, 2005
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I'm 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 24, and things couldn't be better. One problem. He's married to another woman. I had NO idea he was married when we got together 4 months ago. Had I known then what I know now, I wouldn't have ever kept up contact with him. So, I know, but he doesn't know I know. And I'm guessing the wife has NO idea about his infedility. I've known this for about two weeks. I taped us "in the act", in case I ever needed proof.
Question is: how should I go about handling this?
Should I bring it up to HIM first?
Should I somehow tell his WIFE? And if you think I should do that, in what form of communication do you think would be best?
Do you think I should just end the relationship suddenly without mentioning it to him, and then stay the hell away, or what?
I would like to know if MY significant other were up to no good. I know it's not so much my business, but I would have trouble living with myself knowing I kept such a drastic secret from a woman who has every right to know. :( (link)
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hi,
well she needs to know. but first i think she deserves happiness as much as you do.
most people would confront the him and if he says no
because it seems that he's just getting what he wants from you
but then again i don't know you or him to pass judgement.
if he deny it he , its up to you to tell his wife. but the wife might lash out on you
good luck
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Thank you sooo much for your response!! I really apreciate it, and I will definitely think about your contribution!! :)
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