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okay well i have a bf and hes gone for about 2 weeks so i wont be able to see him and i barley get to talk to him. but the thing is wen hes not gone we dont talk (well barley anyway)) and the thing is im started to like this other guy. and i dont want to but then again i do becuz hes not shy unlike my bf and idk what to do im so confused right now. please help me.
First, you have to evaluate what YOU WANT FOR A RELATIONSHIP. You have to evaluate what you want for and in a relationship. This will help you a lot. Then you have to see if your current boyfriend meets the criteria of your values for a relationship. If you feel like, at the time, that it isn't right to look at your values, then don't at that time. Try looking at your values when you're the most relaxed. Perhaps, you should try and talk to your boyfriend about talking more perhaps. Or maybe you should find out more about his interests that he's into and really just get into them. Don't force him or anything to talk to you, but let him know that you do wish for more talking in your relationship. Also, if he doesn't necessarily meet all the criteria of your values, then don't be so quick to go and dump him. Get to know the other guy and that'll take time before you dump your current boyfriend over him. Getting to know him will not hurt anyone . It'll just ensure if you'll continue to like this guy or not. Get to know him and see with time if your boyfriend will change . If he doesn't change, and the other guy meets the criteria of your values for a relationship, then dump the current boyfriend and go for it.
(Rating: 5) thankx 4 all the help!