Hey! I'm Melaur-F 16 5'7 111 pounds! I've been through some tough times in my life and I have heard that I give really good advice. I LOVE helping people out no matter what age.. oh, and I can be kinda bitchy sometimes about stupid people that write LyKe DiS.. I'm not saying I always use correct grammer but COME ON lets atleast speak the same language people! I love to help on long complicated problems... they make me think! I'm an EXTREMLY deep thinker as well, sometimes I get so bad I have to see a doctor about being crazy.. which I'm not, I promise :o) Well anywhoooo... ask me absolutly anything, I promise I'll answer as long as I can read it! Take care!!!
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my friend abby is in the tenth grade, and her older sister and boyfriend just commited suicide together on saturday(nov.5) and today..abby wasnt at school (no suprise) how long do you think it will be until abby comes back? abby is the kind of person that if she's really depressed she'll start cutting herself... how can i tell (besides the odvious cut scars)if she has?, what can i do to comfort her, (i only see her in latin, because i sit behind her, and she's a couple grades older than me, so i dont see her after school) i just dont want to make things worse for her. she's a really great person, but a little misunderstood by adults... HELP!!! any advice or help will get you a 5 cause i dont know what to do!
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That's a hard thing to help out with. People react different in tough situations, some people want everybody to leave them alone, some people want everybody to comfort them, and some people pretend that they want to be left alone but really WANT to be comforted. Some people hate when people say their "sorry for their loss" because it reminds them of it when their trying to move on with thier lives. Just make sure your there for Abby if she needs to talk. If she looks sad, make a joke, or say something that will make her smile, comfort her without reminding her. Good luck
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that was really good advice. thanks alot. i'm adding you as my favorite columnist.
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