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Alright i have a boyfriend and we have been dating for a week.. and I thought i loved him so much and now i dont even know! he is the first guy that has treated me ok! but i feel like hes goin to fast and Now i just dont know if i love him or if i even wana be with him! I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG! when Im with him i feel good but i feel weird! and like i feel like he is moving to fast and now I am thinkin should i break up with him? but then he wont talk to me! and he doesnt live in my city he lives like 30 mins away.. and now im noticing how many guys in my city i could get! that are real sweathearts! but i wont cheat on anyone cause im not like that! The thing is i made my boyfriend promises that i wouldnt break up with him cause i thought i loved him! and now i dont even know if i wana be with him right now! I promised him I wouldnt ever break up with him. and he said well other girls that said that broke up with me the next week. I mean i totaly like him alot but i am so confused! and he likes me so so much i dont wana hurt him! HE IS GREAT!
what do i dooooo!? (link)
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Well, I personally think that you're problem is him moving to fast. I think you should tell him EXACTLY how you feel. The best thing in any relationship is honesty. If you cant be honest with him, then there isnt really a relationship there anyway, right? Tell him that you're uncomfortable with the speed of hte relationship, and see how he reacts. If hes a jerk bout it, then you dont really want to be with him anywa, regardless of any promises. Relationships arent promised until its marriage.
Or, if hes sweet and understanding, then you can try to continue on with the relationship and build on it. But atleast by talkign to him everything will be out in the open, and you will both be on the same page, and understand how eachother feels. And you'll feel better. I mean, why break up with him without knowing if things could be better? Good luck with it all =)
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