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As indicated by the subject of this question, this is another one of those 'omg am i in love? or is it lust? or is it... something my mind made up to mock me?" type questions. So please bear with me. this is going to be a LONG question or series of questions. If you don't believe me go ahead and scroll down and look.
My first question would be to the guys: Do you guys enjoy flirting with a girl before making any type of move? It seems to me that guys find it fun to seem interested in a girl then totally shoot her down. Or something to that effect. Do guys believe in real honest-to-goodness true love? Or do you guys just see flings [right word?] as the right thing and see how many girlfriends you can get and then dump before you graduate high school/college? Right now, I would to state that no, I am not biased in seeing guys as heart-breakers and have no feelings. I'm just wondering, since I have no idea what a guy's notion of flirting is. Do guys believe in love at first sight or true love? Or is it that the only love left in this world is more similar to lust? Do you guys have high standards in what you expect in the 'perfect' girl?
Girls. Do any of you girls find yourselves falling in love with every single guy that comes along and makes an impact or small dent in your life? Do you find yourself daydreaming about the cute guy you've never talked to before or one of your new guy friends falling in love with you? Do you believe that out there, somewhere, there is a perfect guy? Do you believe that you'll meet him before you graduate high school or after? before you graduate college or after? I'm the type of person who wants a soul mate before graduating high school. High standard but what can I say? Almost every girl dreams of finding the perfect one before too long. Is it wrong to have too many high standards for what you want in a guy?
Now this section is to either gender. How do you know if you're truly 'in love' and not lusting? People probably have asked this question many times before, but I'm still curious. I've fallen in and out of love faster than you can say "omgimthinkimlove~". I can't really trust my feelings so saying things like "just trust your heart" does not bode well with me. What's the difference between love and lust as in how do you know when you feeling lust instead of love? Can you trust yourself to truly to be 'heads over heels' in love? Can your deep feelings of love be a fabrication of your mind when it senses that you're really lonely? Define true love, give me how you feel when you believe you're truly in love.
Anyone who bothers to read this entire question passage and cares to think deeply about the questions i've asked and answers thoughtfully would definitely get a 5. I would be really surprised if more than three people answer more than three questions or bother to answer at all. Answer more than two questions at least please. If you read this far, congratulations you get a virtual cookie and probably a 5 if you answer all the above questions [depending on if you're a girl or guy] or more than three. Idiots who have no idea what they're saying and are trying to sound philosophical will have a 1 branded on their foreheads or something. (link)
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as for your qirl ?;s i'lll say this much its okay you have soo many questions & inputs on life! and as for you having high standards well one day a man that you will fall madly in love w. will in fact meet those standards. NOt to sound like one of those people in a movie .. buh there is a prince charminq for you some where out there and as of if you are meeting him be4 or after highschool well no1 can really tell right now you'll meet him when he comes along. and of course mostly all qirls do feel like they fall in love w. every quy they feel is speciall to them whether its a close friend,distantfriend, new friend, or an old friend they could poss. feel as if they are in love but most of the time its not love its just that qirls feel secure and comfort in knowin she has a quy who cares for her. you kno your in love when you qet thea ... like it doesnt matter weather the quy/qirl is hott or smart or sexii or beautiful [it kind of helps] but the onlii thing that matters in love is weather u like that persons personality and enjoys their company and loves spending time w. that person no matter what the circumstances are!And to me true love is caring about the person your claim to love NO MATTER WHAT weather they are poor or rich uqly or beautiful smart or dumn just pain and simple NMW happens to tha person you will always want to be with him/her!
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Rating: 4
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thanks for taking your time to asnwer the questions and while you did answer them, some of them are answers i heard a lot already, but thanks anyway :)
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