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As indicated by the subject of this question, this is another one of those 'omg am i in love? or is it lust? or is it... something my mind made up to mock me?" type questions. So please bear with me. this is going to be a LONG question or series of questions. If you don't believe me go ahead and scroll down and look.
My first question would be to the guys: Do you guys enjoy flirting with a girl before making any type of move? It seems to me that guys find it fun to seem interested in a girl then totally shoot her down. Or something to that effect. Do guys believe in real honest-to-goodness true love? Or do you guys just see flings [right word?] as the right thing and see how many girlfriends you can get and then dump before you graduate high school/college? Right now, I would to state that no, I am not biased in seeing guys as heart-breakers and have no feelings. I'm just wondering, since I have no idea what a guy's notion of flirting is. Do guys believe in love at first sight or true love? Or is it that the only love left in this world is more similar to lust? Do you guys have high standards in what you expect in the 'perfect' girl?
Girls. Do any of you girls find yourselves falling in love with every single guy that comes along and makes an impact or small dent in your life? Do you find yourself daydreaming about the cute guy you've never talked to before or one of your new guy friends falling in love with you? Do you believe that out there, somewhere, there is a perfect guy? Do you believe that you'll meet him before you graduate high school or after? before you graduate college or after? I'm the type of person who wants a soul mate before graduating high school. High standard but what can I say? Almost every girl dreams of finding the perfect one before too long. Is it wrong to have too many high standards for what you want in a guy?
Now this section is to either gender. How do you know if you're truly 'in love' and not lusting? People probably have asked this question many times before, but I'm still curious. I've fallen in and out of love faster than you can say "omgimthinkimlove~". I can't really trust my feelings so saying things like "just trust your heart" does not bode well with me. What's the difference between love and lust as in how do you know when you feeling lust instead of love? Can you trust yourself to truly to be 'heads over heels' in love? Can your deep feelings of love be a fabrication of your mind when it senses that you're really lonely? Define true love, give me how you feel when you believe you're truly in love.
Anyone who bothers to read this entire question passage and cares to think deeply about the questions i've asked and answers thoughtfully would definitely get a 5. I would be really surprised if more than three people answer more than three questions or bother to answer at all. Answer more than two questions at least please. If you read this far, congratulations you get a virtual cookie and probably a 5 if you answer all the above questions [depending on if you're a girl or guy] or more than three. Idiots who have no idea what they're saying and are trying to sound philosophical will have a 1 branded on their foreheads or something. (link)
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ok well im a guy soo i would have to say honestly i do like flirting with that girl befor ei make a moto se if she is really intrseted in me.... there a few who really are interested in the girl and care bout the girl but you have ot find the right one that really tlks from the heart and that really loves you..some guys bealive in hoest to true love but yet agiann you must find that type of a guy that does bealive in that..some guys jus see lings depends on the guy but me i bealive in true to honest love.. no well some guys want to see how many girls they can get before hs or college but that right guy for you will bealive in true love and be with you and love you with his heart and not see how man girls he can get before collge or hisgh scool.. yes well i can speak for guys like me i found the right girl for me at first sight but yet agian it depemnds on the type of a guy but me or a person llike me belaives in love at first sight...honestly no you dont need the perfect grl to be happy but what you really need it the RIGHT girl for you ...honestly what are high standerds what do you need them for what we guys well a guy liek me looks for is not high stnaderds but the right girl for me..
well for the there genders you now en your in luv wen all you want to do is see that girl tlk to her be with her and just overall see her in ur heart and love her with heart and soul...liek i said love is when no matter what happends you cannot get thatperson of your mind and all u think bout is care and love them and want to be with them and see them and talk to them lsut your jsu like basiclly iffy on things and not soos ure bout goin otut naht night...like for exaple love for what happened to em one time i was at a party and every one was dancing hot girls there and all and i just couldnt get her off off my mind i actually talked to her allt hrue the party that is love and im still in love with that girl at least a year later...thats love..theres nothin worng with bein heaed over heells in love becouse thats what love is about and if your heart and soul are tellingyou you love that person and think boutt hem and all of that stuff then theres nothin wrong with bein heads over heels..no hoenstly when your in love you no it truly throughout your whole body and you feel that love the time..when im truly in love that would be that example that i gave above about the party and liek right now i can tget this girl off my mind i told her i love her and all i do is think about her when i am around anyone girls or guys shes jus the RIGHT girl for me...
good luck if you have any other guestions ask me or im me on capsgoalie91
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Rating: 5
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Even though some parts of your answer was confusing [not that im insulting you or anything], i must say thank you. You added a little more to my book of love...relationship whatever from a boy's point of view. dont be surprised if some random stranger IMs you one of these days.
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