Hey Lovely people! I'm Kelse. And I want to help everyone who needs it so don't be afraid to ask. People you have been through a lot can help others easier and trust me I have been through too much! Well I hope you ask me lots of questions cuz that helps me w/ the pain as much as it does you!
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Okay hi,
I`m a 16 yr old female..
Alright this has all been taken care of but i don`t know what to do bout somethings..
here i`ll start with what has happened.. I got raped three times by the same guy over the summer..Yes i`ve tooken care of him and he`s doin 21 yrs thank god plus he admitted to it..
But i`m havin diffculties with sleeping,Yea i thought that shit only happened in movies where you feel he`s by you and what not but No its happenin to me.. I talk to my boyfriend about it and he tries to talk to me at night as long as possible but that doesn`t change how i feel after i get off the phone with him.. This might sound stupid but the only time i sleep good is with my boyfriend on weekends its like i use him to put me to sleep i mean Yes i`ve tried sleeping pills,reading and i`ve counted sheep and everything else there is to count.. i don`t know what to do i`m so tired in school and my grades are goin down horribly.. i seen a doctor to talk to about it but i don`t think that helped.. i mean this guy already took my trust and everything else away.. i mean he don`t need my sleep too.. so if you can give me advice in anything or how to deal with it better ill rate high and give advice.. (link)
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Hunny♥ this case sounds bad. You need to talk to your parents about the situation or another adult you truly trust. I know what you are feeling because I have been through this myself.
♥I know you said you have tried medicines and stuff, but you really need to try your own medicine. What I mean by this is at night find something that bores you and do it over and over again. Untill you are bored out of your wits tell yourself a story and continue with this story for several nights just like you were writing a book. I know that sounds odd, but for me it helps.
♥If that doesn't help try listening to music or have a friend spend the night with you a couple of times. I know you said your boyfriend stays with you on weekends, but that is a sin and I do not think that is right. Please don't think of that as offensive because I am only telling my belief's. You do not have to obide by that note.
♥Maybe you should sleep in your parents room. Not in the same bed, but make yourself a cot on the ground and sleep there. If this doesn't work have your parents talk to you until you are to drouzy to say a word.
♥I really hope this is what you are looking for. I do hope I helped!♥
♥Glam
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Rating: 5
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Thanks alot.. but um i can`t exactly ask my mom for help when she don`t believe me in the first place.. ♥
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