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theres a guy that I really like. We havent slept together yet but I was hoping that one day we could be more than friends. Anyways I just found out from one of his friends that he spent a year in jail when he was 18, but wouldnt tell me what for. Anyways, that was a long time ago, he is in his 40's now.
He is a really nice guy and I know he would never hurt me. But I'm really curious as to why he was in jail.
Should I ask him or wait for him to tell me?

Ask him. Get it out. Don't force him to say anything about it and accept it if he doesn't wish to discuss it and then wait till he's ready. But ask him. Let him know that you want to know. How else is he supposed to know that you want to know why he went to jail when he was eighteen? Also, you should tell him that you know that people can change and I do hope that you know that he's probably changed since the age of 18 to 40. Let him know that you know this because it will make it easier for him and it'll make it easier for you. Don't force him , just casually mention it. Don't force it. And show him that you have support for him still, and the most important of all, that your feelings for him will remain the same.

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(Rating: 5) good, solid advice
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