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Hey, I'm 16 and a junior in High school.
Anyway I have a hard time letting people get close to me. It's like it's hard for them to know anything about me. Like I can't let anyone get close to me without giving them a cocky or smart ass remark. I could just met the person and they could say "hello" and I would roll my eyes and be like whatever. Only because I think the person is going to get to know me and then turn around and hurt me in some way shape or form.
It doesn't matter who it is, it could be a girl it could be a guy. It could be my friend's mom! I know its pathic.
I wasn't always like this though It happened right after me and my boyfriend broke up. Me and him where together for 1 1/2 and I loved him with all my heart. But we had a falling out, he started not to trust me around guys, he started to pay more attention to being a fire fighter and putting things before me. When we broke up if I would say something he would say "whore" right away, if I was talking to an older boy he would tell me i was a "slut" if i wore a low cut shirt i was called a "skank". Me and him broke
This happened 8 - 9 mths ago, and since then it seems the "wall" around my heart has gotten worse.It seems to me that, that really changed me, and since I was hurt by the one person i truly care about. Since then me and him have stopped talking, and I lost a few friends because I wouldn't talk to them, I even lost my best friend in it. Also me and my own family are becoming distant, I have a hard time expressing myself now.
I'm so afarid to trust anybody, espcially a guy, because I think that they are going to hurt me and I'm going to end up heart-broke worse then before.
So my question pretty much is, is there any way that I can start to trust people and let people get back in my life?
*Also, please don't say go out and meet other people, I currently am, but I cannot let them get close to me*
Thank-you for ANY help!
hi, ok guys are always gonna brake your heart, but you cant do notin about emm. most likely its there lost, just ignore them, also friends will come, and friends will go. just have friends now, they mite not be with you forever but you\'ll neva no unless you try.
(Rating: 3) You really didn't help me at all! Atleast you tried though, i'll give you that much. Also it's a little hard to ignore all this that happens, when it has such a big impact on your life