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I'm a 16 year old girl who's been dating this guy I'm fully in love with for around 7 - 8 months. We're both still virgins but we've talked about losing our virginity to each other. Neither one of us has EVER did anything sexually with another person, so I'm pretty sure neither of us have any STDS or AIDS. So far, we've experienced everything but sex with each other. We've considered all the risks & have thought long and hard about this, but mind you, we are prepared and we do have a brain unlike half the teenage population. We both know that we are fully ready to do this in our minds & hearts. But, I have a question. Even though, we aren't married & we're gonna lose our virginity to each other.. and though we've been together for a while & are planning on beging together for a long time after this (possibly even marriage later on, but you never know what may happen).. do you think this is okay? Like sometimes it worrys me because I know in my heart that it's a sin to have sex before marriage, but we've talked about it & with our friends as well, and we all figured out that if you ask God for his forgiveness, he will accept it. I just want opinions on this.. do you think it's okay to have sex at 16 if you're mature & ready enough? I mean, what's the point in waiting until you're married? I know one reason is because it can be a sin and then another is because there's a possibility of having a baby, but if you're sexually "safe" with condoms & birth control, then you're chances are very slim to none for having a child. So any opinions or thoughts is welcome on this.. don't be afraid to express how you feel, it won't bother me. Thank you all very much! :) (link)
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I am a very stong catholic. What you are about to do is completely wrong. You know it's wrong. If you truly love someone, sex is not the way you need to express it. Though you and your boyfriend may feel as if you are ready, you are never truly ready unless yu are married. Virginity is a gift from God. That gift is meant to be given to only your husband, no one else. On your wedding night, the best wedding you can give your husband is your virginity. God made sex to be between married people, only. You are right when yu say God will forgive you, but will you forgive you? You may regret this, if things dont work out between you and your boyfriend. Then yu will have to live with yourself, knowing that you knew what the right choice was, but yu purposely made the wrong one. Sorry if this is too harsh, but that is my honest opinion. Please, make the decision you know is right.
Lemme know how things worked out
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