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Q: i am a comlumnist here but there comes a time when i need advice. c i have been w/ this guy for 4 months now and he seem to b slipping. i dont know what to say to him. he seems to be holding back all the time. i need help. please, tell me what to do!
Its so hard. I've been there. And it feels the harder you try and grab on, the more he slips away (and it makes you kind of nuts in the process). I don't advocate playing games, but in this case, it may work...Why not try and do it back to him. Make some plans with your friends this weekend, don't always ask whats wrong and stuff. Do NOT act rude, that will backfire in your face, big time. Just play a little hard to get. It may get him refocused back on you, and if he is gone for good, it will get you over that much faster.
Good luck and keep me posted

thank you for your help i think it might work. keep me posted i might need to come to you again!

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