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I know a lot of people can relate to this. My first time was wit my "First Love". We broke up like 4-5 months after my first time. I mean now I regret it or whateva but can I actually get my mind back to thinking like he's not really my first because my cherry didn't bust. He didn't put it all the way in. I mean I really dislike him. Is that bad? Can someone help me to get my mind off of it. Please no DUMB, Smart answers, if you have a smart comment then keep it to yourself because I am already hurting in the inside and to come on here and get jugded by ppl I don't know is even more devastating. THank you (link)
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Dear Mistake,
Let me tell you about my first time with my first love. It lasted 5 minutes. Later that day he started telling our friends that I wasn't a virgin to begin with and that I was very loose. This hurt me bad because I WAS a virgin. He was so small that I didn't feel a thing. He too, did not break my cherry, but I didn't say anything because I loved him. He broke up with me less than a week later. I cried myself to sleep for months. All the while he went through girlfriend after girlfriend after girlfriend. I finally was over him, but it took a while.
I too disliked him for the way he treated me. I also felt sorry for him because of how inadequate he was. Maybe that's why he went through so many girlfriends. I finally told myself that he did not count as my first time and went on with my life. Every experience in your life makes you who you are. You have a second chance at your first time because he did not pop your cherry or put it all the way in. To take your mind off of it, read some books on Tantric sex. Practice on yourself and when you have mastered the art, then start looking for another boyfriend. That way the when you have sex, you will blow the his mind and you'll be to good for him to want to leave you. I just wanted you to know that I can relate to how you are feeling and life does go on, it just takes a little time.
Keep your head up and keep smiling. Good Luck and Happy Halloween :)
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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If I could rate you higher than a 5 a truly would. Thank you so much because that really helps. Thank you again
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