BY no means am I always right or know what to do. However, I will tell you what I would do in your situation and what I know to be the most honest and helpful advice that I can give.
Thanks for asking,
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okay well i was going to ask this boy out on the computer...i RLY like him and ppl say he rly likes me and it looks like it because all he does is flirt with me and only me but when i ask someone to ask him if he likes me...he'll say no! the other day i asked my friend chelsey at my other friends party to tell him he should go out with me and he said no!!! and then on the computer a few weeks ago chelsey asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said he didnt know...now is he just doing this because he doesnt want to admit that he'll like me? i rly like him and EVERYONE says he likes me and some of his friends even told me he said he liked me but why is he doing this if he does!? should i just ask him out and get on with my life if he doesnt!? please help...ill rate 5's for any advice unless its mean (link)
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Dear Asking him out,
So the only reason you think he likes you is because EVERYONE tells you that he says he does, Right? Yet he won't admit it to anyone. Let me pass on some advice my dad once gave me in a similar situation: Believe only part of what you hear, part of what you read and half of what you see. Get to the bottom of this by simply asking the boy if the rumors are true. Go to the source, quit beating around the bush. If he likes you and you like him then you are just waisting time that you could be using to get to know each other. If he denies the rumor then you know EVERYONE was just messing with your head. Quit having other people ask him questions, maybe he is saying no because you are sending other people to do your deeds. Just talk to him and above all stay honest. I hope I helped you. Happy Halloween :)
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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thank you sooo much! this advice is awesome
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