BY no means am I always right or know what to do. However, I will tell you what I would do in your situation and what I know to be the most honest and helpful advice that I can give.
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Okay well, I like this Boy named jonathan. But I am afraid to ask him out. What if he says no or somthing . Well the most basic thing is that I am really shy and dont know what to say to them. umm. like what I say I have his phone number or I can talk to him at school but what should i say to him??? Please help if you give me a good answer then I will give you a rating so if you want your rating to go up you can answer this seriously and I will for sure give you a five is if it's good advice (link)
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Dear Help Please,
Being shy is natural and often comes with fear of rejection. Don't be afraid to speak up. IF he doesn't have a girlfriend start with talking to him at school, only call him if he gives you permission. If you are too afraid to talk face to face, then pass him a note. You could sweep him off of his feet by giving him a letter telling him the things you like about him and that you would like to get to know him better. Find something that you both have in common. Ask him what kind of movies he likes to watch, if he wants to go to the movies with you or come to your house and watch a movie. Maybe he is having trouble in one of his classes and you can tutor him. There are endless possibilities, but always remember the worst he can do is say no. If you don't try and talk to him then you will always wonder if he would have said yes. What ever you decide to do, keep in mind that Jonathan is not the only boy worth asking out. Good luck and keep me posted, OK.
Sincerely,
Honestymatters
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thanks that was awsome advice and you are one of my favorite columnists my user name is brittany_x31
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