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Q: hello..i am 16, and turn 17 in february.. i was wondering peoples outlooks on me. i lost my virginity when i was 14 to the first 'highschool sweetheart'.. then i didnt have sex until this past summer. and once i did i was addicted. my sister said it probably runs through the family but im not sure. i have now 'hooked' up with 4 guys, including the highschool sweetheart. thing is, two guys were only when i was totally wasted so i dont know what to think. please tell me your outlook on my situation and why i might be 'addicted' to sex.
You probably not a sex addict. Don't worry. I do think you probably like the attention. Its exciting how much power sex can have, getting guys to be interested in you, the power a guy has over you when you are interested in him.
I don't think its slutty or wrong to like sex. I just don't. I think if you are safe and smart about it, its really fun and natural. But, as you can see by some of the responses below, a lot of people don't feel the same way.
You have to decide if people having maybe not the highest opinion of you is that big of a deal or not. Also, as for being totally wasted when having sex... try not to. It can lead you into bad situations that you don't want to be in, then sex will not be a fun thing.
Hope this helps. Good luck and keep me posted.

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