Hello, My name is Eva. I am from a small town in Texas but I currently reside in San Antonio. I have been married forever, have 3 children, and come from a big family. Needless to say, I've been through it. Drop me a line if you would like my advice. I love to help others whenever possible, and I will do my best to help you.
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Member Since: October 5, 2005
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Last Update: November 11, 2005
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I have been with my boyfriend for a year we've even planned on getting married, I'm crazy over him but i always find myself jealous over other girls exspecailly his ex. He wasn't a virgin when i met him and i was, so you know where the story goes from there. I cant help but think that he still loves her sometimes. I mean i dont believe he talks to her but i'm just so afraid of losing him to her. On top of that fear, latley i find myself argueing with him over stupid things, half of the time i dont even remember why the arguements started... I even told him i hated him( i was mad and didnt mean it) I think i'm pushing him away or going crazy... whats my problem?? How do i fix it?? Wht do i do about the ex?? The Jealousy?? plz help me i cant lose him........~luvlee~ (link)
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Most of this seems to be about issues that you will need to work out on your own. Honestly... what can you do to control him... the answer is nothing. If you try to than you can be sure that you will lose him. You have to realize that all these things that you are worried about happening are things that can not be controlled. If a guy is gonna cheat, he will, and your constantly getting mad at him for things will only make the possibility of him cheating greater.
Did you know that he wasnt a virgin when you first started seeing him? If you did then you knew what you were getting into. Just try to get past it... we all have a past. You can be the future if you will stop obsessing about the past. Just be the person he fell in love with and everything should work out for the best.
Hope it all works out,
Eva J
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Eva thanks for the advice, you're right we all have a past and i do need to quit obsessing and just be the girl he fell in love with.... Thank so much ~Luvlee~
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