hey everyone! my names amanda im 17 from ohio if u need any advice about anything Im a great person to ask because Ive been threw it all so dont be afraid to ask anything personal either!
Member Since: October 23, 2005
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Last Update: October 23, 2005
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There's this boy that I've known ever since 5th grade (we are in 9th grade) we are very close besides the fact that I NEVER SPENT TIME WITH HIM BESIDES SCHOOL!!! Yea we would talk on the phone, text and stuff but, I would LOVE to go somewhere with him one day but there are 2 problems:
1.) I am afraid that if I am alone with him, he might put the moves on me and we might have sex! (Only a kiss will do)
2.) I am afraid that if I go to the movies with him or something, that he might try and play me by taking me somewhere far, leaving me alone or embarrassing me.
What can I do to overcome my shyness and how do I explain to him that I am shy?
P.S. I gave him some excuses! I don't want to seem like a liar or that I don't want to be with him because I DO! it would be like a DATE or something.. My FIRST date! (link)
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wow i was the same way! well if you've known him since 5th grade you should kno him by now! why do you think he would leave you somewhere or embarass you? If he is that type of person then he is not worth your time..but if you really like him and you dont want to be completely alone with him invite him and a few friends over and just hang out or try group dating. on my first date i went with a group of friends and we had a blast! so I would try the group thing...tell him you are a shy girl and if you two ever dated you would like to take things slow.I was shy but You just have to be comfortable with that person and tell yourself he is just a guy. hes probably more nervous than you are because they have to make the first move so they probly are in the same position as you are in. and everyone gets over the shy stage it just takes some time until you get used to being around guys and know their actions and intentions
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HE'S NOT THAT TYPE OF PERSON BUT HE *DOES* LIKE TO PLAY WITH ME LOL
WE HAVE A WONDERFUL RELATIONSHIP
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