Hello, My name is Eva. I am from a small town in Texas but I currently reside in San Antonio. I have been married forever, have 3 children, and come from a big family. Needless to say, I've been through it. Drop me a line if you would like my advice. I love to help others whenever possible, and I will do my best to help you.
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Ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out a very long time and i really do love him!! But then i have this friend that he really doesnt like and she is like my best friend and shes alwayz with me!! well yesterday we got in a arguement about it and he says he doesnt no y i hang out with her and i dunno but i dun think he wants me to be her friend so its him or her i dunno what to doo but i want them both?
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A boyfriend should never get in the way of a friendship. Girl friends are forever, we need them to get through all the crap that guys put us through.
Is this girl friend a good friend to you? If she is than why even consider getting rid of the friendship. Now if she was a bad friend, I might consider it.
Never let a guy dictate what friends you can and cannot have. If keeping the girl friend is important to you, than you need to let him know this. Let him know that if he cares about you he will do his best to resolve his feelings towards this friend. If he doesnt care to do that, than maybe he is too selfish and is not the right guy for you. If he trully cares about you, he will try.
Eva J
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