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Location: Cincinnati Ohio
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Age: 17
AIM: Kipskywalk
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I need to get over this guy. I have liekd him for about 14 weeks and I finally decided that I have waited long enough. How do I get ovre him? Please respond quickly, I rate high for GOOD answers. (link)
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Getting over someone isn't something you can just force yourself to do. It'll happen when you're ready and it takes time. There are a few things you can try that might help to speed up the process though. The first thing is to keep busy. If you're busy doing other things you won't have time to let your mind wander to him. Try hanging out with friends a lot, watching movies, listening to music, playing a sport, maybe becoming involved in hobbies or something. Another thing you can try is to look for someone else that's worth thinking about instead of this guy. I'm sure that there's another guy out there that's perfect to fill that void you're feeling right now. Finally, make a list of the things your perfect guy would be. Physical attributes such as height, hair color, weight, body type, etc, as well as emotional and mental features: a good listener, passionate about life, friendly, etc. Compare your "perfect guy" to the guy you can't get over right now and see all the shortcomings of your current crush. That helps sometimes too. I hope this helped out, and let me know if you have any other questions :)
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