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Alright. This is going to be extremley confusing. I'm in a relationship with this guy named *Tom*. We've been dating for 2 months. We only hold hands and cuddle. We don't make out or anything. Haven't even kissed. I kind of regard him as an older brother now.
Now there's this other guy, *mark*. we've been wanting to date for over 7 months, but couldn't because of different reasons. Now we want to go out together. We are fine to talk, cuddle, make out, and even do some physical stuff together. And I really care for him. Deeply.(BUT I HAVE NOT DONE ANY OF THIS WHILE I HAVE BEEN WITH *TOM*)
Now I recently, as in two days ago, met this guy named *Pat*. He's really sweet and fun to talk to, and he likes to treat me sweetly, kiss my hand, hug me, hold hands...but he knows i have a boyfriend. I feel so helpless. like it's not right to say no. He wants me to break with *tom and go with him, but I don't know...*mark* wants me to break with *tom* to go with him too..
I honestly don't know what to do.
I've gotten into a mess...
Please give me valuable advice....
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well, it looks like the flame is gone for *tom*, so the first thing you should say is "life has been really hectic for me these days and i don't think that things will go too far with us and i'm really sorry because i have no other way to say this." or something..your break-up speech and see about *mark* and *pat* and look at their PERSONALITY NOT LOOKS..guys consider girls shallow when they go otu with somebody for their looks. personally, pick a guy who is fun and wont bore you because you seem like a girl who gets bored easily and make sure they are GOOD guys, no potheads or nazi lovers or something. it's all true what angelfire said..
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Rating: 5
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Yeah. I just really don't know exactly what to say to "tom". If you want to comment back with more suggestions....then I'd gladly appreciate it. but thank you for your advice. ♥
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