Well im just your typical 18 year old!! I love hanging out with my friends and the boyfriend. I also like to just have a relaxing day and just chill at my apartment. I go to college. I love all types of music! I think the things I can most help out with would be boy advice, school advice, and work advice. Im not good with computers, so if it's something about computers, go somewhere else! k thanks
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Alright. This is going to be extremley confusing. I'm in a relationship with this guy named *Tom*. We've been dating for 2 months. We only hold hands and cuddle. We don't make out or anything. Haven't even kissed. I kind of regard him as an older brother now.
Now there's this other guy, *mark*. we've been wanting to date for over 7 months, but couldn't because of different reasons. Now we want to go out together. We are fine to talk, cuddle, make out, and even do some physical stuff together. And I really care for him. Deeply.(BUT I HAVE NOT DONE ANY OF THIS WHILE I HAVE BEEN WITH *TOM*)
Now I recently, as in two days ago, met this guy named *Pat*. He's really sweet and fun to talk to, and he likes to treat me sweetly, kiss my hand, hug me, hold hands...but he knows i have a boyfriend. I feel so helpless. like it's not right to say no. He wants me to break with *tom and go with him, but I don't know...*mark* wants me to break with *tom* to go with him too..
I honestly don't know what to do.
I've gotten into a mess...
Please give me valuable advice....
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Alright *Tom* seems like he would be an older brother. Get rid of him ASAP. But do it nicely. He may be hurt at first, but he will get over it and realize that you guys are too much of friends than to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Just tell him that you see him as a best friend and you want to keep him that way.
Also, *Mark* must really like you, for your looks, and wants in your pants. Not a good idea. There are way better guys out there honestly. *Mark* should of been patient with you and not done any of those things unless you guys were going out for awhile. Doesn't it seem kind of weird that he has all the time to do all of this stuff with you, but doesn't have the time to date you. He obviously wants one thing. He's not the kind of person that you should want to be with.
*Pat* seems like an all around sweetheart. I would choose him. He obviously is caring and wants to treat you like a princess, which is how guys should treat us girls :). I would choose him.
--BUT...follow your heart. Let it guide you. If you feel no chemistry with 2 and a lot with the other one, the one is the one you should go with.
I hope I helped and Good luck!!
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Thanks for the advice hun. ♥ I just need to figure it out...thanks though because you opened my eyes
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