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Location: Central Ohio
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Age: 24
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I really like this older guy and he likes me. The age difference is quite big, he's in his mid 40's and I am 27.
We both like each other and have been on a couple of dates, but I'm worried about other people;s reaction to us.
For example, we had many raised eyebrows when we went out to a restaurant together. Someone asked me if he was my father!!
Also other friends of mine that have met him don't find him attractive and don't know what I see in him. I've always gone for guys with nice personalities than good looking guys who were jerks. So what if he's a little overweight and going grey?
He treats me well and I feel like I can talk to him about anything.
What should I say to everyone who is trying to break us up? (link)
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Hi There. I think I can sympathize with your situation a bit. I've currently been involved with a man who is 11 years older than me for a little over a year now. I'm 23 and he's 34.
I have always been on the mature side for my age. I experienced a lot during my 'wild' phase while I was younger and didn't really get into the college-type dating scene of hook-ups and picking up jerks at bars. He is definitely young at heart. He tends to be goofier than I am, and a lot of his friends are more towards my age. Somehow I think we meet in the middle.
My friends and family raised their eyebrows a little when they heard the description. Paticularly because he had been previously married and has a six year old daughter. But when they met him, and saw how hapy I was, they got to know him as a person and things got better. Not everyone is dying to see us walk down the aisle, but more and more people acknowledge we are in fact a good match.
The point is, he meets my needs. I am comfortable and happy around him, and miss him when he's gone. We live together and look forward to the future.
What is important is how you feel about him. Behind closed doors, that's all there is... you, and him.
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Thanks, I'm like you everyone tells me how mature I am for my age. My guy doesnt have any kids but we have talked about it and we both agree that I would be a great mom.
Who cares what others think, great advice!!
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