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Location: Cincinnati Ohio
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
AIM: Kipskywalk
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Well, here's the story. I'm 14 Female. My friend moved to my town a couple years ago. She visits her old town often, so she brought me with her one time in the summer. It was REALLY fun, we hung out at her old friend's house. And this kid was there. All of us hung out all day. I like the kid that was there, and I have liked him since that night. We talk online every once in a while, and I've talked to him on the phone a few times. It seemed like he liked me from the way we talk to eachother, but I don't know. That was in the summer, and it's October! He lives about 45 minutes away, which is not too bad. I REALLY like him, but I don't know what to do. My friend says it totally sounds like he likes me, but nothing's happening. Also, like, if he asked me out or something, do you think it would work? (him living 45 minutes away?) It would be far to drive just to hang out. I don't know exactly what I'm asking, but if you have any advice, it would be great? (link)
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I'm a guy so I'll give you more of a male perspective on this one. Long distance relationships are tough. You don't get the see the person often, it's hard to tell if they're being true to you, you can't be physically held by them in all your times of need, etc. They are hard, but they are possible. My best relationship was a long distance relationship, although the distance was only 30 mins. Distance relationships are built solely on trust and honesty. If at any point during the relationship either of these points begin to flounder, then entire relationship is pretty much sunk. It takes more dedication than a regular in-town relationship, but can also be rewarding. It's even more specail seeing you're someone on those rare occasions you get to meet face to face. It all comes down to whether or not both of you are willing to endure all the hardships stated above, plus others. If you think you both are, then give it a shot. You should try being the aggressor a little bit. He lives 45 mins away, so if you make a move and get rejected nobody's gonna know. You're not gonna get embarrassed in front of your whole school or anything. Just make sure that, if a relationship does begin, that you are spending more time enjoying it than working to keep it going. The moment you spend more time holding things together than having fun is the moment the relationship has failed. Most of all, you're young so have fun. It may be better, at your age, to date guys that live closer to you just so you can experience more things and learn from them so that you know what you want when you became an adult. Hope that helped. Let me know if you have any other questions.
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