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Hey, I'm Emily. I'm a nineteen year-old college student. I decided to make one of these things because my planned college major will be counceling of some sort.I'm not easily embarassed, so ask anything you want. No question is too personal, too strange, or on a subject that I wouldn't talk about.

I did have to choose three "favorite categories", but please don't think that my abilities are limited to them. I know some about eating disorders/body image, religion problems (I often have those myself), drug issues or questions (experience is the best teacher. . .)and, of course, I can help out with any sort of relationship with anyone.
I dabble in a little bit of everything.
I hope I can help you.
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well i just started dating this kid, let's call him john, and we are always hanging all over eachother. we just blend well physically, and are always caught kissing and hugging. i love being around him because i feel loved, but when we talk on the phone or it is just me and him we have hardly any conversation going. alot of the time we are just quiet when we are alone. how bad is this? is it a big deal or just something that will fade? should i reconsider our relationship? (link)
I've been in this situation, and I know it's a sucky one.
. . How bad is it? Well, that depends. Do you want a relationship with this guy? If you do, you may want to reconsider. Getting all cuddly is nice and all, but at the end of the day, communication is what makes relationships last.
Maybe you just don't know what to say to each other because you're nervous or you don't know where to start. I think you should go to a bookstore and pick up one of those "book of questions". These are books that are just questions to ask your friends and to start converstations. Buy one and see if you can't start a conversation with it. You can usually find them with the trivia books.
You could also both fill out one of those annoying internet survey things that ask a bunch of questions about yourself, and then talk about it.
Hope this helps.


Rating: 4
i can start a conversation without a manuel, he is the one who lacks conversation. but thank you anyways.




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