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Q: but my friend is a chrisitan. He wants me to go to church with him every week, and im not all that enthusiastic. I feel guilty for even thinking about saying no because i get all self concious when i think of him thinking of me as a sinner. Anyways we were having a very good time at a footbal game and then we were talking about stuff and somehow the topic just came up about dying. He was like, no offense but if you died right now i think you'd go to hell. He was being really serious. Well, it depressed the hell out of me. Im a nice person, i dont try to judge people, i like to share, my morals are higher then anyone elses and then i get depressed because i cant live up to them. I was really hurt but i didnt let on. He wouldnt elaborate, he said we could talk about it on the phone sometime. Well, do you think it was right of him to say that? Or am i just being dumb? I cant help but feel like im some kind of 'project' hes trying to save...
thats a load of bull. im Catholic. i would know...ask him if he is Christian then why is HE so quick to judge others. after all, it says in the bible, "Do not judge, or you too will be judged...Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your onw eye? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye."(Matthew 6:7:1-5). i hope he gets the message!

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i'm a crazy person, but in a good way. i'm always happy and I guess i'm a free spirit. i have an open mind and like trying new things. my friends come second only to my religion. i'm a total nerrrddd...but i love bein one, so it's ok ^^music, theatre, debate, and science olympiad are my life. i enjoy meeting new people and i'm pretty straightfoward. i dont like mind games, so i don't do it to other people. i think out loud alot, which can be a problem...if there's anything else you want to know about me, just IM me. i'm usually on unless i'm researching for one of the nerdy things mentioned above...

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