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but my friend is a chrisitan. He wants me to go to church with him every week, and im not all that enthusiastic. I feel guilty for even thinking about saying no because i get all self concious when i think of him thinking of me as a sinner. Anyways we were having a very good time at a footbal game and then we were talking about stuff and somehow the topic just came up about dying. He was like, no offense but if you died right now i think you'd go to hell. He was being really serious. Well, it depressed the hell out of me. Im a nice person, i dont try to judge people, i like to share, my morals are higher then anyone elses and then i get depressed because i cant live up to them. I was really hurt but i didnt let on. He wouldnt elaborate, he said we could talk about it on the phone sometime. Well, do you think it was right of him to say that? Or am i just being dumb? I cant help but feel like im some kind of 'project' hes trying to save... (link)
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Your friend is not a friend at all. You need to be honest and tell him that he's pushing is making you uncomfortable because you don't necessarily think the way he does. And that's okay. Any friend who will tell you that you are doomed is not the kind of friend you need. It might be hard to be upfront with him, especially if he wants to stop being your friend. However, you need people with whom you feel comfortable and who are not trying to make you a convert constantly. Remember the best kind of person is the person who does good because it is the right thing to do, not because there is a reward at the end. Best wishes.
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