Hello, My name is Eva. I am from a small town in Texas but I currently reside in San Antonio. I have been married forever, have 3 children, and come from a big family. Needless to say, I've been through it. Drop me a line if you would like my advice. I love to help others whenever possible, and I will do my best to help you.
Gender: Female Member Since: October 5, 2005 Answers: 64 Last Update: November 11, 2005 Visitors: 5581
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I'm 16f and i need help with this girl. Last year i really liked her but things didn't work out for alot of reasons. She says she's not bi but she had thought about it. Lately she's been giving me a ton of hugs, massages, touching my arm a ton. I like it but it's starting to send mixed signals and i'm starting to like her again. I'm not sure if she's just being friendly or might be interested. One minute it's like she's interested, the next she's not. It's confusing me but if i brought it up, it'd be for the 3rd time in the last two years and i dont want to hurt our friendship. I dont want to fall in love with her and then be hurt AGAIN!!! I couldn't stand that. Should i say something or is there some way to definitely tell???? I'd appreciate anything!!! I'll rate 5's!!! (link)
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You have to understand that females in general can be very touchy feely. I hug, touch, push, alot. I am not attracted to females. If she thought about it in the past she might be trying to figure out for herself and even if you ask she may not be ready to answer. She might get frustrated with not knowing herself. I am not saying that you should not talk to her about it, but if you do decide to ask, then you should know that she might not be ready to answer. That could lead to some tension. Let her know that it was just something you had to discuss with her and that you will try to understand. No matter what the response. Patience will help.
Eva J
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Rating: 5
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Thank you!!! I know girls are like that but this is like all of a sudden. She's doing alotttt. I'll try to understand because i think i forced her to answer last year. Good point. Thanx soooo much!!!
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