I'm a twenty year old chick from Wisconsin. I could sit here and ramble on about my life, but I'm not going to. I'll spare you the boring details. God knows we've seen one too many profiles with "OMG, I HAVE A BOYFRIEND. AND A DOG. GOD I LOVE THEM BOTH, I CANT CHOOSE WHO I LOVE MORE. IM SO COOL. I LOVE MY FRIENDS. SHOUTOUTS LYKE THX!"
So lets cut to the chase, I'm only here becuase a friend reffered me and I have a knack of giving advice. I'm very blunt and in no way am I going to paint some pretty picture and tell you things that you want to hear.
Have fun kids.
Gender: Female
Age: 20
Member Since: September 21, 2005
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Last Update: December 20, 2005
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i really want a baby of my own but i'm only 14. is that bad? i want a baby by the time i am a sophmore in high school. i am very motherly and plenty mature enough, i babysit all the time.
i have a boy in mind that i would want to get me pregnant and i'm sure he would have sex with me, but i know he wouldnt want to be a father at 15 or 16. (he's a year older than me) he's not my boyfriend, but he used to be,
i love him with all my heart and i know he already wants to move closer to me for college but still, thats a couple years away.
my family loves him and his family and his family feels the same way. i'm sure my family would help me out as much as they could if i did get pregnant, but still....
help!! any advice at all would be wonderful.
is it bad that i want a baby so bad? should i like, seduce this guy and have sex with him? what if he denies having sex with me if i do have a baby? what if he stops loving me because of me having a child?
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It's not a bad thing, it's great that you want to be a mother. But you have all the time in the world for a bouncing baby.
You can't expect this guy to just get you pregnant. That's a lot on his shoulders, and that is a big responsibility for the two of you. Have you talked to your parents about this? Just imagine what they would think, they probably wouldn't be very open to the idea becuase you're so young.
What kind of life could you give this baby at 15? How is this going to affect you at school? You can't rely on just your parents and family to help you out. You'll have to get a job, and being so young they won't really pay you very well or give you the kinds of hours you'll need.
Don't you want your own place for your baby? And to have a good job with nice pay so you can afford to get your baby nice things? You'll want a father there too who is fully dedicated to that decision. Build yourself a nest egg before you have a child, I know with as much as you want one the wait is going to be a struggle.. but believe me.. it's going to be your best choice in the longer run.
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