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hey! im a fourteen year old "freshie" and im always up for people to ask me for their advice. im usually pretty good at it, and i try to give my honest opinion. i enjoy hanging out with my friends, jumping on my trampoline, going to the mall, shopping, going online, listening to music, etc... im a very easy going person and i have a lot of friends and im very happy. people describe me as bubbly, funny, nice to be around. people have told me that theyve never heard anyone say anything bad about me... so what does tht tell you? im obviously some what cool.. ha ha

i dont think im the best ever, i can always improve, but i do think im one of those people that can be a good friend
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Hi, I am a 17 yr old male who has a problem. My g/f head over heels in love with me. She claims, that if she could, she would marry me and have my children. The only thing is that I don't love her. I just like her a lot, but nowhere near to love. I used to say that I love her though I didn't mean it. Over the summer I admitted to her the truth sbout my feelings for her. Thinking this would driver her away, it only brough her closer. She is glad that I am able to tell her the truth on how I feel because she feels it brings us closer. We are curently intimate in the act of sex. I have always wondered if I am in it because of sex. My question is should I stay with her, and if I do, is it right for us to be having sex? (link)
if you dont love her, you might have to take a break or something, because it's not going to work out if you dont feel the same for each other. it's good though that she feels closer to you due to the fact that at least she trusts you to tell her what you feel. this is also bad in a way because now you probably dont know how to act.

my advice is: if you don't love her, you probably shouldn't keep her with you because, the longer youre with her, the more she'l miss you once you break up. it probably feels very awquard to you that you don't feel the same. next time, youre with her ask your self " do i love her?" and ask that whenever u think about it and figure out when youre happiest. if its when u guys are having sex, then maybe tht is the reason. just ask yourself this and you'll see what she truely means to you.


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my sis once told me she is trying to draw me in and capture me through my sexual desires, i questioned it and now u said the same thing i guess u r rite in a lot of ways. Thx so much




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