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I'm 18 and I'm in my freshman year of college right now at Arizona State University.
Gender: Female
Location: Arizona
Age: 18
Member Since: October 2, 2005
Answers: 46
Last Update: October 15, 2005
Visitors: 3965
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okay well lately ive really had the urge to have a baby. im 16 and ive been watching kids and playing with my niece ( 2 1/2) and it really makes me want to have one. i dont want one for the sex or anything i just want it for the whole thing pregancy, birth baby everything and going around kids makes me want one more and more. what should i do? i dont live it a kind of neighbor hood where that is really acepted and my parents would kill me if i had a child but i want one so bad like you have no idea what do i do? its not like i can even control these urges they are there (link)
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Simply don't have a kid. WAIT.
You have your entire life to be an adult. Just be a kid now, live your life. Live your teenage years and live it up when you turn 21. Give yourself more years of freedom before you put that kind of responsibility on you. Only have one when you're 100% ready. I sometimes think that a kid is cute, and I would love to have a little girl call me "Mommy" and look up to me. But not when I'm 18 (or 16 in your case). Just think of all the fun you're going to have from the years 16 and up. Then when you're halfway through your 20s, or so, THEN have one. When you can financially and emotionally take care of one. You're really not ready yet.
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thanks but i feel ready. from a young age i new i wanted alot of children and im way more mature than i guess my peers when it comes to this stuff. i know exactly what i would get my self into and i could handle it i just know it would be i guess frowned apond and i cant get it out of my head
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