Hello, My name is Eva. I am from a small town in Texas but I currently reside in San Antonio. I have been married forever, have 3 children, and come from a big family. Needless to say, I've been through it. Drop me a line if you would like my advice. I love to help others whenever possible, and I will do my best to help you.
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Last Update: November 11, 2005
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okay well lately ive really had the urge to have a baby. im 16 and ive been watching kids and playing with my niece ( 2 1/2) and it really makes me want to have one. i dont want one for the sex or anything i just want it for the whole thing pregancy, birth baby everything and going around kids makes me want one more and more. what should i do? i dont live it a kind of neighbor hood where that is really acepted and my parents would kill me if i had a child but i want one so bad like you have no idea what do i do? its not like i can even control these urges they are there (link)
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It is a natural urge to want to be motherly and nurturing. You will probably make a wonderful mother some day. But having a child isnt only about you. Once the child is born it is more about them. I am sure that you are ready to love but what about all the material needs this child will have. Are you prepared to handle all the rest of the responsibilities that come with having a child? Will the life that you have to offer this child be all that this child deserves? My advice is wait til you can answer these questions without hesitations or self interest.
Eva J
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thanks! you where helpful. do you think you might be able to help me out. if so please email me at xsweetxpeax88@aim.com
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