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I'm 18 and I'm in my freshman year of college right now at Arizona State University.
Gender: Female
Location: Arizona
Age: 18
Member Since: October 2, 2005
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Last Update: October 15, 2005
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I learn about sex through sex education websites, such as sites for teenagers, and I'm consintly sharing such information with friends so that they will not do something wrong when they get infected or something. I taught everyone how to put on condoms, take them off correctly, and although my friend recieved the information gratefully, she thinks that I would only know this because I watch porn. Naturally, there are pictures but they are of infections and such. What do I do to convince them that I DO NOT watch porn (even though it is a healthy thing, I still don't), and that I don't have such access to it? (link)
Is the fact that they think you watch porn becoming a problem? Because if they just mentioned it once, and never again, then it's no big deal and probably doesn't need to be brought up again. But if she continuously is mentioning "you watching porn", then yeah. Set her straight. Ask her to stop accusing you of it, and tell her there are other ways to learn how to do this stuff than watch porn. (Yeah, plus porn either 1)half the time doesn't even HAVE a condom or 2)doesn't even show them putting it on, it's just magically there).

Tell her that you care about you and your friend's health, so sometimes you read up on sex education when you're bored, so that when you have sex, you'll be ready and prepared. Show them the websites. They're really immature if they don't understand that after that, you DONT watch porn. I think it's stupid in the beginning for her to be accusing you of it anyway.

Anyway, good luck!


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Thank you. You're not like the other people who only leaves comments that have no help whatsoever. You actually read closely. Which is more than I could say for the other people that gives "advice".




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