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I am so confused as of what i should do. My friend ("best friend") is sooo annoying. She hardly hangs out with me anymore, shes too busy hanging out with the 2 popular kids in our class,,its so obvious to tell shes trying to be cool. the 2 popular kids were talking about celeberty poker and how they love it. and shes like OMG I LOVE CELEBRTY POKER! haha!" and this is so untrue cuz, 1. she doesnt no how to play it,,or at least i think. When i told her about my camp stories and how we played poker she was like YEAH UMM FUN.
2. her tv doesnt even work.
and yeah, stuff like that keeps happening and its really starting to get annoying, and i let it go everytime but im soo anoyed...what should i do? be friends with her, tell her i dont want to be friends, what? we have been best friends for 2 years and this stuff hasnt been much of a problem till this year. it happened like once a couple years ago, and sometimes last year, but its getting bad this year. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!
btw i rate 5's for good help, and non-stupid answers
Well, I don't know her, but from your tint on things it sounds like this person is a bit of a fairweather friend, meaning she comes and goes like weather. But if she is in some respect considered your best friend you must have plaeced some sort of respect in her at one time or another. If you feel you are not comfortable enough to talk this out with her, then you may have to question the integrity of the bond you two share. One thing you could do if you don't feel comfortable talking it out is try to get in with her new crowd. Bring a couple of your buds to hang out with her and the new crew. See if you can find out what caused her to "leave" you. It may just be that she's insecure about herself and finding the right crowd, and in that case she would probably welcome you as a new addandem to her group. HOWEVER, if she shows any signs that she might have gotten the impression that she finds you were a needy friend or soemthing like that, then you need to find out if she really feels like that. See how she reacts if you invite her over to your house. I know this has been long but I hope it helped.
(Rating: 5) lol dont worry you helped