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hi im 14 live in newfoundland and i just like giving advice and helping out but im homest weither it nice or brutal
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My son is 17, but a very socially immature 17, acts more like he is 15. He is a senior in high school at a private Christian school, doing very well in most respects. My coworker is a little dramatic and often inappropriate at work, but a nice person and very generous. Her daughter is a freshman at the high school down the street from my son's school. Her daughter has had many emotional and behavior problems and recently was even hospitalized for more than a week while being treated with medication for bi polar and depression. The school is always calling my coworker about this girl, she is always in trouble. I have tried to be a good friend to this woman, we have cubicles right next to each other. Lately she has been on a kick that her daughter needs to date my son. I slid out of the homecoming dance only for her to try to arrange something further now and even asked for my son's e mail address and cell phone number so her daughter can get to know him. I am certain this is a bad idea. My coworker keeps pointing out that she chaperones all her daughter's activities and would take my son to a rock climbing wall facility and snow skiing and to plays and concerts. While I know my son would likely enjoy these activities, I doubt that having a mentally unstable girl thrust upon him by a very forceful mom who is overly involved in her daughter's life is a good choice. What should I say to get out of this? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I really don't want to be pushing my son into a relationship with this dramatic family, nor do I feel I should ever chose his dates.
ok well im 14/m and sumone i know same age female is a lot like this girl but you should ask your son about it trust me if he wants to he'll go behind your back like i did to be friends with her or even go out so i think the choice should be his or he'll become mentally unstable to like i did if thats what you wanna call it(witch is very offensive acctually)
(Rating: 2) Well, I know that she is mentally instable, otherwise I would not have said so. Not just teen moodiness, but a true chemical problem that is being treated and is still not stable. I hope this is not the case for you and if it is, I hope you are doing better.