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God. You really have no idea how many times I have been blamed for something I didn't do. Like 2 weeks ago someone (not me) cut the seatbelts on the bus and threw out the airfreshener. And there comes the vice principal looking for me and he told me that I did it. Which I obviously didn't. I have done things that made me get in trouble. I did that like 5 times. And yes I did bad stuff then. But that was in 6th grade. I'm now in 8th.
So, he was talking to me and telling me how I shouldn't of done that. And hes blaming me for everything. He doesn't care about my side of the story. I've tried talking to him but he wouldn't lissten. I told him he was a liar, because it's true. He didn't care.
How should I show him i've changed from being a bad @$$ to a good person?? I'm thinking about going to my councelor and telling her about it.
Well, first I think that you're doing the right thing when you say that you're going to your school counselor, and I know that you may disagree with me but I do think that you need to tell your parents before he tells them. If you don't tell your parents, your parents will find out and they'll more likely listen to him because you didn't confront them first about his false accusations. Just tell them the truth and that you really didn't do it. He probably believes that you did it because of your past actions and some people have a really hard time believing in the best of people when they have changed. You really must understand that people just have a hard time adjusting to change and yes it's stupid. Also, what you must understand and it's also what you know too, is that the councelors have absolutely no authority over the principal at your schoo. You could explain your case then you could ask her to try and persuade the principle of your innocence with her opinion of what you said to her. Keep trying no matter how many times he doesn't listen. Keep trying.
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