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I am currently attending the 3rd top private high school ($22,000 a year) in the country for the past 4 years (i'm in my freshman year, so this being my 5th..it also had a middle school + elementary school). But ever since I came here, all through the 4 years at this school, I have been miserable. Not because of the workload but because of the people. No one is friendly and it's EXTREMELY hard for me to make a few friends and its cliqie. I've tried to make more friends over & over again, but it hasn't worked. It's been like this for four years! Some people won't talk to me because of a rumor that I did something illegal and made a girl leave the school because of what I did, but it wasn't even true. They won't even believe me when I tell them it wasn't true. But the base line is that I have no friends at this school. So my problem is that my parents are having the HARDEST time deciding whether to take me out of my school or not because it's one of the best in the nation, gets ppl into ivy leagues, and yadda yadda. Also, my grades are affecting because of my loneliness at this school, I mean not that much, but still. So basically, I don't know what I should do. Move to a new school and sacrifice the benefits of the school I am currently going to, or stay here and be miserable for the rest of my high school years but most likely end up at a good college/university, or any other option that would work well. Thanks soo much, again! (link)
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You should try for a little longer on making friends if not then your parents should definatly take you out. Middle school is supposed to be fun. High school is supposed to be one of the best times of your life. Don't risk not having those memories. You need to have a fun time in school, sure the work part isn't fun, but everything else should be. Friends, school events like dances, football/ basketball/ soccer/ track meets and games missed out on not going to with friends because of this problem... I don't think so. Do yourself a favor and make friends. If this means going to a different school, so be it. Be outgoing if you can, if not then at least say hi and be very friendly to people. Have an edge and don't be afraid to be different. Please don't risk not having those memories.
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