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I really want to make more friends, and to get a boyfriend. But first I know I have to be comfortable with myself to be comfortable around others. Thats the problem... I dont know how I can be comfortable with myself. I'm not really proud of myself for anything, and I just...I dont know what to do. Its causing me major social disruptions...loss of confidence...loss of outgoingness...I hardly have any friends...Havent had a bf since 7th grade (10th now)...I just want to turn back into myself. I dont know how to explain it...but, how can I like myself again?

Hey,
Go out and treat yourself to some new outfits. Like maybe go to Abercrombie or Aeropostale or you could go higher priced like Versace, Liz Clairborne, BeBe, and other expensive designer clothing lines. Treat yourself to go and get your nails done maybe get a cute design on your nails or just go for a more simple look french tip. Treat yourself to go and get your hair done. Then boys will start noticing you more and then you will feel more comfortable with yourself and then you'll gain all your confidence back and maybe even your friends.

Good Luck,
Advicegodesses2

P.S.Please write me back and tell me how my advice was and how it went.

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(Rating: 5) That's pretty good idea...thanks...I think I will go treat myself to a good outfit...probably not nails...but a good outfit...great advice!
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