ask tesseract



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



Hi! I'll do what I can to help you find the answers you're looking for.
Member Since: September 25, 2005
Answers: 12
Last Update: September 28, 2005
Visitors: 4257

Main Categories:
Spirituality
Plants and Gardens
Random Weirdos
View All

For some time now i've thought i was bi. I've never done anything but i've realized how i was thinking was totally different and unusual. It's been a year and i still haven't made up my mind. Once in awhile i'll "decide" that i'm not but then it ALWAYS comes back and drives me nuts until i'll decide i'm not again. But even then i can't get it off my mind. I know that raging hormones has to deal with this too, but what are the chances of this coming back EVERY SINGLE TIME?!?!?! My family is against it and my friends are okay with it. So please don't tell me to talk with my parents. I just need to know what's going on and why i can't decide. I'll rate ya high!!! (link)
You seem to think that your sexuality is a choice. It is not, there is no 'deciding'. You feel the way you feel (and yes, depending on your mood, you can go through 'more straight' and 'more gay' stages).

Try to see through all the social programming in your brain and focus on how you truly feel.

Your parents each had their own lives to make all the decisions they ever wanted to make for themselves. Don't let them decide what's best for you in YOUR life.


Rating: 5
I'm trying to see and i know what i want. But something's still holding me back. But what you said made sense. I'll think about that. Thanx!!!




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop

eXTReMe Tracker