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I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for over a year. Its a pretty special relationship to me. But, theres always these never ending problems that I can't fix anymore. There are times when he'll know that I need him, and he'll leave, not like I'll be crying and say, "I need you" I mean like, we'll have plans to meet online or something, and he'll go to his friends house. I'm usually always ok with him leaving to go to a friends house. But, we hardly got to talk last weekend and now this weekend we never talked, and now next weekend he'll be gone and he knew that he would be. We always have problems where he'll be gone, or just a silly issue will happen. I'd hate to sound like one of those desperate girls, but hes different. He isn't the type to just leave me like that, he feels really bad when he forgets something or did something wrong, yet it keeps happening, and I'm the only one to always think of a solution to fix us, well, this time I decided to make him think, and hes saying we should break up for now. We have recently taken a lot of breaks to help us, we started with taking the whole weekend away, and then we moved on to a week and a half, and here we are stuck again. I have never been so terrified in my life about this relationship failing. I guess I need to know if breaking up for now was the right thing, or if we should be doing something we havn't already done. I think there is something inside of him wanting to work this out, but something else forgets. I'm really open to any answers, I just need help, I'm really depressed. What would be the best solution to you?
I'll be sure to rate, but I hope I get true answers. (link)
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To me the best solution would be that you too give each other some time to see if you too really want to continue with the relationship,get your ideas straight,clear to avoid confusion on how you too feel about each other.If you too see that you too can't live apart of each other then one of you might as well tell the other that you care,want to keep the relationship.A year of boyfriend,girlfriend is a long time,I like that you are always doing what you can to save your relationship,you have nothing to regret,and if he is the one for you go after him, and tell him everything that you feel about him.Teens go through depression but most of us know how to deal with it on our own or find someone close for support,comfort,and help so you might as well do the same.
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Thank you. I feel better about this, because its an answer I love hearing, but I know I have to deal with the truth sometimes too. Thanks again.
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